To Facebook … or not?
Here’s a post about Facebook that resonated with me, as I suspect it will with many of you in PR: Should CEOs be on Facebook. Lois (who I used to work for) really captured an ongoing debate I’m having with myself about Facebook as the next great social media tool: do I jump in feet first, do I wade in, or do I stay on the dock? AND, how/where do I incorporate Facebook into my PR program … or do I?
As Lois points out, “It’s wonderful that the media are on Facebook. It is a good way for conversations to take place and that would be a benefit for CEOs who are open to really building and maintaining a strong relationship with influencers.”
The Internet flattened the world, and PR people now need to build relationships around the country and the world, often virtually. That makes a platform like Facebook’s is very compelling, and is why, I believe, so many in the PR and media circles have embraced the social networking phenom. And I agree with a lot of the potential benefits of executives joining the interaction circles on Facebook.
But, something is still holding me back from joining. Actually, several things are (in no particular order):
- It’s a huge time suck. And an even worse perception killer. I can justify the need to network with media, but I could easily burn several hours a week on the site. That in turn could fuel a perception that I’m the one always on Facebook, which would rank me just above the YouTube watcher on the perceived productivity scale.
- My friends are on the site. And sometimes, it’s just too easy to be distracted.
- Did I mention my friends are there? Merging my personal and business networks isn’t something I’m quite ready to do. Granted, I socialize with people in my business world outside of work. And it’s possible (even likely) that I could run into a friend at a professional networking event. But I’m still not ready to introduce my professional contacts to my college roommate or my mother [Facebook just announced friend grouping, which may help address this]
- And finally, no matter what people say, Facebook is not set up for professional networking, at least not to me. For example, right next to your picture is your marital status and orientation. It’s subtle, but riddle me this — when was the last time your introduction at an in-person networking event started out with “Hi, my name is John. I’m a straight married man” or “Hi, I’m Heather and yes, I’m single”? The intro alone sets the tone for informal socializing. It’s fitting for friends and great for college kids, but awkward (or creepy) for executives. If Facebook really plans to cross over into the business world, subtleties like that need to be adjusted.
Even with my concerns, I still believe there are several very compelling arguments for where and how Facebook can complement an existing program. But until I come to terms with whether or not I should join, and whether or not I should encourage my execs to join, I’ll continue to be an interested observer (and will continue looking for a better solution, which I think I’ve found … more on that in a few weeks).
What about you? Is anyone else holding out? Or do you think I’m letting the Facebook parade pass me by?

